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September 24, 2025

Channeling vs. Representing in Family Constellations: Subtle Differences, Profound Implications

Channeling and representing in Family Constellations may appear similar at first glance, but they arise from different sources and lead to different kinds of information. Understanding this difference ensures that constellation work remains true to its purpose and integrity.

July 31, 2025

Blended Families and Family Constellations: Finding Order in Complexity

In Family Constellations, we look beyond surface dynamics to reveal the deep loyalties, hidden exclusions, and unconscious entanglements that can influence harmony, or discord, within a blended family system.

June 10, 2025

Adoption Through the Lens of Family Constellations

In Family Constellations, we know that every new beginning includes a past; and that past must be honored for the present to flourish. For the child to feel fully grounded in life, both lineages must be seen—even if only silently, in the heart.

May 29, 2025

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The Invisible Burden: Living the Life of an Excluded Ancestor and Healing Ancestral Trauma

In Family Constellations, we recognize that emotions and patterns may not be yours alone. They may be echoes from previous generations; unspoken, unresolved, and now surfacing through you.

March 7, 2025

In Vitro Fertilization (IVF), Assisted Reproduction and Family Constellations

Is every child welcomed into life, regardless of how they were conceived? Discover assisted reproduction and IVF from a Family Constellations perspective.

January 31, 2025

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I Want to be in a Relationship – Why Am I Still Single? Insights from Family Constellations

Still single? Discover the most common hidden loyalties and unconscious dynamics behind being single when you want to be in a relationship.

April 2, 2024

The Impact of Sibling Birth Order Within Family Constellations

Do you feel like something is missing in your life, or that it is difficult for you to find your place in the world, or that you are carrying a burden that seems too heavy to be just yours? From […]

June 10, 2021

How to Heal Father Wounds by Taking Our Father into Our Heart

Who is the person most excluded in families? It is the father. According to Bert Hellinger, mothers have a tendency to pull their children in towards them, distancing them from their father, which also distances them from the world and […]

May 13, 2021

What is Vanishing Twin Syndrome (and Could You be a Vanishing Twin Survivor)?

What is vanishing twin syndrome? The term vanishing twin is used when one of the fetuses in a multigestation pregnancy dies in utero and is either miscarried, reabsorbed into the uterine lining of the mother or into the living twin. […]

April 8, 2021

The Orders of Love Regarding Former Partners – Giving a Place in Our Heart to Your Exes

The couple relationship gives us the opportunity of experiencing love outside our blood ties and can be one of the greatest sources of joy or of pain in our lives. When we begin a relationship with someone, we do not […]

March 11, 2021

What’s Behind Sibling Rivalry and Conflicts Between Siblings?

Even though siblings come from the same family system, they develop different personalities, have different destinies, and sometimes find it hard to get along. There is a subconscious, indissoluble bond that connects siblings and lasts forever, regardless of what your […]

December 1, 2020