Even though siblings come from the same family system, they develop different personalities, have different destinies, and sometimes find it hard to get along.
There is a subconscious, indissoluble bond that connects siblings and lasts forever, regardless of what your relationship with them is like, even if you are not on speaking terms or have never met some of them.
The relationship with our siblings sets a blueprint for other peer relationships in life, such as life partners, friends and colleagues and whatever is unresolved with our siblings will likely be projected onto those relationships.
Conflicts between siblings are usually not about what they appear to be. As observed in family constellations, these are some of the most common root causes of disputes between brothers and sisters:
These dynamics are operating in the subconscious level (we are not aware that they are there) and are exacerbated in certain life events, such as when a parent passes away and leaves an inheritance. However, when the entanglements come to light in a family constellation, something shifts inside, which usually also has a positive effect in the relationship.
Here are some keys to resolve sibling rivalry and conflicts with your siblings:
Are you ready to begin the journey to resolve your sibling rivalry?
To go deeper into this subject, join us for my upcoming Family Constellations Online Workshop: My siblings and I: Same beginnings, different lives.
We will also be setting up constellations on any issue that arises on the Family Constellations Online Workshops: Ready for a Shift.